Friday, July 22, 2011

The State of Things

by Justine

It's now 2011 and times have changed :) Chino's now in the UK and just recently completed his tertiary studies (congrats!!!). I've been working for more than a year now since graduating on February 2010. Chino and I still regularly communicate since he left for the UK about a year ago but it wasn't recently where we Skyped. It was like our usual coffee and cigarette session but virtual.


Distance really is a game changer, but one thing's for sure.. friendship will never go away. Especially if you have that strong bond, no matter how far a friend is, and no matter how long you don't communicate, when you do and things don't change, that's when you can count on that friend to be an asset in your life.

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

2010 Already?!

Chino's
In 2009, I think I had more downs than ups
I lost
my virginity...NOT.hahahha
I stopped going to dirty places if you know what I mean, ok I didn't stop but the frequency was low.
I started investing in hustling and lomography.hahah
I was hugely satisfied by meeting with my friends and knowing things havent changed for the worse.
And frustrated by the bad situations that just creep up to you.
I am so embarrassed that I I can't even answer this question because I don't remember anything embarrasing, that must be good.
The biggest physical difference between me last December and this December is I gained weight, and my moustache is more visible now...to me at least
The biggest psychological difference between me last December and this December is I try not to have a sentimental value on materialistic things, except my cameras.
I loved spending time good friends, and we don't have to be doing anything special, they are special enough.
Why did I spend even two minutes and more at Centro, shit.
I should have spent more time learning something which can help my career.
I regret buying t-shirts that did not fit me after 2 sessions
I will never regret buying my friends a drink even though with that money I could have bought films for my lomography
I think way too much
I didn’t care enough, knowing I might have a chance and not try drove me crazy.
The most relaxing place I went was a national park in California, it was unlike anything I've ever been to. Just mother nature on a different level, if only I could embrace her
Why did I go to social party of my parents, major kill
The best thing I did for someone else was hear out my friends. Comfort them, I did a lot of it last year. I wanna keep all my friendships alive. My friends are important to me. *Still the same as the last time we did this
The best thing I did for myself was join the "Lomo Sapiens" Exhibit in Ukraine, I felt glad that my hobby was getting recognized, and it made me know that I am getting better at it.
The best thing someone did for me wasprobably Bea being around me. I love her!
The one thing I’d like to do again, but do it better, is MILK IT TO THE MAX!

Justine's
In 2009, I gained a whole new outlook on life, and for the most part it ain't really pretty :(
I lost
my confidence.
I stopped living life the way I wanted to..
I started worrying about the littlest things.
I was hugely satisfied by just being alone at home.
And frustrated by the fact that I have no outlook in life..
I am so embarrassed that I can't even say why.
The biggest physical difference between me last December and this December is i definitely gained more weight..
The biggest psychological difference between me last December and this December is I was excited with life, what's in store for me, I was fearless then.. now it's the complete opposite.
I loved spending time with my family, my best friends, the plastics and my uni friends--I miss them.
Why did I spend even two minutes worrying about things.
I should have spent more time communicating about how I really felt.
I regret buying -- didn't regret buying anything last year!
I will never regret buying food even though with that money I could have bought things which didn't involve me gaining weight! Heh
I worried way too much
I didn’t live enough, even though I could have.
My thoughts drove me crazy.
The most relaxing place I went was all the beaches I went to, Ciater, the province back home in Cebu.
Why did I go to school that certain day which turned my whole life around.
The best thing I did for someone else was give them the advice they needed which hopefully turned out for the best for them..
The best thing I did for myself was finish my studies.
The best thing someone did for me was comfort me during my lowest days.
The one thing I’d like to do again, but do it better, is LIVE MY LIFE, eh eh eh eh haha!

Saturday, February 21, 2009

Friday, February 13, 2009

The Coffee Journey

POSTED BY JUSTINE



Chino and I always loved having coffee together. 2007 was filled with random coffee sessions wherever we were, we'd contact each other and go to the nearest Coffee Bean, sometimes even going out of our way. Both of us were absolutely sure that 2008 was gonna be a great year for us but even with this positive outlook, we had no idea how it would come about and what could be done to make it even better than we imagine. We were also both reformed Starbucks people, but thanks to its overrated-ness and sometimes a pretentious vibe, Coffee Bean rose up to becoming a better alternative: a great atmosphere and great coffee for great conversations.

Since we enjoyed being around each other so much with all the coffee and caffeine, we came up with this plan to start a Coffee Bean 2008 Challenge, were we would visit all the Coffee Bean branches which existed in Jakarta. We eliminated the ones which didn't have a smoking area, because that was pretty vital for our get-togethers. I have to say January was the essence of this challenge, not only were we the most enthusiastic, but we both had the most free time hence we got around to actually visiting 3 branches! Now Jakarta is not the smallest city in the world, getting from one place to another takes time and patience (yes, the traffic). At that moment we were pretty positive we would be able to finish all of the destinations in our list, but boy we had no idea we were in for a ride. Each month passed by slowly, then quickly.. we would still have coffee about once every two weeks or even more, depending on our schedules. Although we didn't always stick to our plan because we had found branches that suited our comfort zone best and always visited: PIM2 and Plaza Senayan, the 2nd being the most frequented.

Everything about Coffee Bean became very familiar to us, and I guess the same could be said the other way around. We had security guards and baristas recognizing our faces and our order. In every branch, we were able to distinguish what were the tastes of each others' perfect coffee, if his cafe mocha was a little bit too bitter or if my vanilla latté was a little bit too sweet. A meet-up would just be intended for an hour, but we would go on for 2, 3 or even more because it wouldn't be enough, and we still had so many things to cover, even though we just met the week before that. Sometimes the question wasn't even about going to different Coffee Beans anymore, but the fact that we had to spend time and had coffee and have a recap of our lives and happenings.

During the span of 2008, we went through a series of happy moments, ordeals and everything in between. I was glad of the support and motivation and good spirits I always got from Chino although he'd bully me (heh, kidding :P) that's why I'd always look forward to our coffee session because it was like, home away from home. We may not agree on most things, but that's what keeps our friendship going, the fact that we never ever get bored of each other because we never run out of things to say, to agree on, to criticize, to love, to hate and to torture (I'll leave that to him). Even though we didn't complete the goal of the challenge, it was still a great fulfillment to us both just to have these moments. Just like the saying which goes: it's all about the journey, not the destination, we didn't even care about the destination anymore, we just wanted (and still want) the journey to keep on going. =)

Thursday, February 12, 2009

My Coffee & Cigz

POSTED BY CHINO



It was a start of New Year back in ’08, excited for what was to come, and positive that it was going to be a great year for the both of us. Justine and I were discussing about our next time to have coffee, this took place over the phone or chat or somewhere else, and we came about a challenge for the both of us. It was known as, The Coffee Bean & Tea Leaf Challenge! Over the year we should have coffee in all the coffee bean branches accessible to us. We did our research of locating their branches, then eliminating the branches which were too distant from where we lived. Why Coffee Bean and not Starbucks?! It’s because we’ve grown out of it, we just got sick of it and all the frenzy of people just choosing Starbucks over any other café’s. Coffee Bean serves way better coffee and tea than Starbucks, seriously it does. Lastly, coffee doesn’t cost as much as Starbucks.

So off we went in our personal challenge! We were positive that we were able to go to all Coffee Bean branches, crossing out places in the list, taking pictures in our coffee sessions, and enjoying our time over good coffee. Soon, we’d see barista’s and their security guards recognizing our faces, our names remembered, and more importantly, all we’d have to say to the cashier person is, “YES!”. Example needed? Sure! First few coffee sessions would go like this:

Barista: Hi welcome to Coffee Bean, what would you like to order?
Chino: One café mocha, hot, large, what about jus (justine)?
Justine: One vanilla latte, hot, regular, thank you!
Soon after that, it went like this:
Barista: Hey! Its both of you, weren’t you just at the other branch last time? So what will you have?
Chino: Yeah! We were just nearby, and decided to have coffee. I’ll have café mocha, hot, large
Justine: hahaha! A vanilla latte for me! Make it hot and regular please?!
Finally it went like this:
Barista: One café mocha, one vanilla latte, both hot, one regular and one large? Am I right?
Juno: Right on! Suweeeet! Yummehhh!

Along the course of the challenge, we started criticizing their different branches, interior designs, ambiance, people, taste (different branches meant different taste, could be better or not as great), and more importantly, the vibe that each branch gave us.

Things were going great for our Coffee Bean challenge, but things weren’t always smooth. We always needed our coffee time together, but not always were we able to go to a new branch we haven’t crossed out on the list. It came to a point where we would always have our coffee sessions at this one specific place, Plaza Senayan. This was the place where we had most of our coffee sessions, we were disappointed that we weren’t able to go to a new place, but happy because the time we spent was great. We didn’t go to all the branches on our list by the end of ’08, we were bummed out, but we were satisfied with it…somewhat.hehe.

Let’s just put it this way, my coffee and cigarettes don’t taste as good without Justine. I’ve had great companion over coffee, but nothing compares those coffee sessions with my chikka Justine. We never have nothing to talk about, we always have something to laugh about, argue about, debate about, rant about, spazz about, and anything about! The Coffee Bean ’08 Challenge was great, caffeine and nicotine wasn’t the only thing gained ginormously last year, the friendship grew stronger and better! Suweeet! You never know, we could just start another year with The Coffee Bean ’09 challenge! With new branches never before explored, beans and leaves never before tasted, and it all comes with a harder, better, faster, stronger bastard and bitch!! Dayum!!

Tuesday, February 10, 2009



It's been a while!!!

Monday, February 2, 2009

Looking back..

We know it's already February and it's RIDICULOUS how fast time flies, but here goes! Looking back last 2008..

Justine's
In 2008, I gained an Indonesian drivers’ license.
I lost
my big old room :(
I stopped blogging at wordpress.
I started yummeh.net fresh with tumblr :P
I was hugely satisfied by a lot of Ben & Jerry’s and a whole lotta cheesecake from different cafés and restaurants! I was on a 2008 cheesecake roll.
And frustrated by so much schoolwork last semester.
I am so embarrassed that I said some things I shouldn’t have said to someone or some people.
The biggest physical difference between me last December and this December is I had longer hair last 07!
The biggest psychological difference between me last December and this December is I guess I became stronger and more ready to face what’s ahead of me.
I loved spending time with friends and family, and with my own set of mean girls + ANY TIME with my macbook is the best time.
Why did I spend even two minutes anticipating panic attacks. I have to change this.
I should have spent more time working out. I am a walking fatass.
I regret buying the cheapest Sennheiser earphones.
I will never regret buying my actionsampler even though with that money I could have bought a Holga 135.
I ATE way too much
I didn’t study for last semesters’ exams hard enough, even though I had great internal grades.
Some of my friends drove me crazy.
The most relaxing place I went was my dad’s boss’ private villa over at Ciater up in the mountains and back home in the Philippine province.
Why did I go to this certain club in Cebu. the people were the WORST.
The best thing I did for someone else was just being there for them. Especially for my mom who I went with all through her 8 chemo sessions, never missed a single one. And for my friends who needed me, I always think of myself as a good friend and I always live up to that.
The best thing I did for myself was be strong, and take into consideration of what my parents wanted for me and appreciate what I have.
The best thing someone did for me was being there, even though they didn’t know what to do (goes out to 2 of my best friends: N & C—thanks guys).
The one thing I’d like to do again, but do it better, is my driver’s license picture! SRSLY!

Chino's
In 2008, I gained a clearer view of my career
I lost
my sexy cellphone
I stopped nothing that came my way
I started becoming serious in life……I think?hehe
I was hugely satisfied by my new interest in photography. Ladies. Friends.
And frustrated by the shit I got into, never had a smooth year.
I am so embarrassed that I fooled a girl, the girl was embarrassing to me.
The biggest physical difference between me last December and this December is I slightly gained/lost weight
The biggest psychological difference between me last December and this December is I know where I want to be.
I loved spending time with my homies, chickass, pamilya, coffee, beer.
Why did I spend even two minutes with a certain someone which led to more minutes with her.hehe
I should have spent more time having fun and hitting the gym
I regret buying my dunks…im not sure though if I bought it on ‘08
I will never regret buying my fisheye2 even though with that money I could have bought sneakers
I procrastinate way too much
I didn’t manage my cash good enough, being broke drove me crazy.
The most relaxing place I went was Bali. I went there to represent my school for some forum, and I got time to see the beauty hidden in the busy life
Why did I go to someones birthday. I won’t mention his name
The best thing I did for someone else was hear out my friends. Comfort them, I did a lot of it last year. I wanna keep all my friendships alive. My friends are important to me.
The best thing I did for myself was compete in APMF (Asian Pacific Media Forum). I didn’t win, but I definitely made an impact on the competition. I was a total newbie there, and I was only in my first semester.
The best thing someone did for me was…I don’t remember, so probably someone didn’t. Or it didn’t have a huge impact on me.
The one thing I’d like to do again, but do it better, is my mistakes in life. My grades.